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Wednesday, 23 September 2015

Don't be scared

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Have you ever been really scared or nervous when you’re starting a new job? School? University? When you're about to put yourself out there and as you are walking to your destination your heart is racing fast, your palms are sweaty and your thinking SOO much. Your thoughts are
going wild and you don't know what to think but as soon as the worst is over, you find out that it wasn't actually as bad as you made it out to be. When you start a new chapter in life and you've never been in that situation before, and as soon as you’re faced with that situation, you then realise that it wasn't as bad as you thought. You actually had a great day than imagined.

Sometimes we are scared because we are have a fear of failure or disappointment. Sometimes we don't want to think about a situation and, we end up making it sound like a really bad situation in our heads. We are all guilty of overthinking situations. If we actually just embraced the moment and were confident in ourselves then, we wouldn't make the situation as bad as we normally make it out to be. We all need to stay calm and think positive. We all have them days where we overthink or make little scenarios about a situation in our head but, something completely different happens.

Don't be scared of new beginnings, new opportunities and definitely don't be scared of taking a risk.

Maybe the chance you have always been waiting for was right on your doorstep but, you were too scared to open the door. Maybe you didn't want to take the risk and grab the opportunity. All you're left with is 'I wonder' 'If' and 'I wish'. Instead of wishing start doing
Go out there and be confident with who you are because everyone else is already taken. 
Go out and grab as many opportunities as you can. 
Go take a risk and say yes to more things. 
Go explore the world. 
Go do the things your heart desires. 
Stop wishing and being scared because you’re only limiting yourself. 
As soon as you change your mind-set then your world will be opened to a billion of new things/opportunities. It's like being young and only knowing the numbers 0, 1, 2, and 3 and as soon as you have that passion in you to learn more, you have more options and your imagination runs wild. Imagine knowing 0, 1, 2, 3 then suddenly you’re taught more numbers like 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, and 9, then you start making more numbers like 14, 21, 34, 45 and the list goes on. 
That's the same with life. 
Go and explore the world (in a sensible manner).
 
xxx
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  1. Such a great post!
    xx
    Mademoiselle Coconath
    http://mllecoconath.com

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  2. what a great post. unfortunately I'm often scared by new things
    www.thefashionfraction.com

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    1. Thank you lovely! Just take it slowly and day by day :) xxx

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  3. This is a lovely post, I really liked reading this :) Great post!
    xo Kiki
    http://colormekiki.com/

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  4. Such great advice- there's such a huge benefit to thinking positively!

    -Ashley
    Le Stylo Rouge

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    1. Thank you for your kind words Ashley and I'm glad you agree :) xxx

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  5. Lovely, inspiring post, thanks for sharing. xx

    Julie
    www.rainingcake.com

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    1. Thank you for your lovely comment gorgeous :) I'm glad you liked this post <3 xxx

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  6. This is very helpful, thanks for sharing.
    xx from Bavaria/Germany, Rena
    www.dressedwithsoul.com

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    1. I'm glad you found it helpful Rena :D xxx

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  7. I can relate. Wish we lived in the same locality so we could be friends :) Your pieces of advice are amazing! <3
    xox Nadia
    http://mielandmint.blogspot.co.uk/

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    1. We can still be friends hun ;) Thank you for your kind words gorgeous! xox

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  8. Beautiful post! You're so right...Disappointment, failure,... holds us back. We should stand up and try again...(not always easy though)

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    1. Thank you soo much for agreeing and I agree it's never easy but we can all do it, we just have to try to be strong <3

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