She's not your competition.

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This is something that is very common nowadays and it's not acceptable. Most of us look at someone and think of them as our 'competition' but if you are competing with others you don't realise but you become bitter. But if you only compete with yourself you become BETTER. Compare yourself with
you! You are your own competition. Remember when you were young and someone may have compared you to someone else, and you didn't like the feeling of being compared to others. So why do you think it's acceptable to compare yourself with others when you don't like others doing it to you.

Do you look at someone and feel insure? Do you look at someone and believe that you need to have a certain amount of recognition, success, job status, clothes, or even money to feel good about yourself? Just look at yourself, and ask what do you really want in life? What is your goal and purpose? Then plan on how you will get there and accomplish your dream(s). It doesn't matter how much you actually have but what matters is how you value what you have, and how you will go after what you want. Stop competing and comparing yourself with others and focus on yourself. Trust me, you will feel much better about yourself.

We all bring something different to the world. But looking at someone else and trying to compete with them all the time is only going to make you negative. Instead you should be happy for them, and be positive. What you are meant to get, you will. And what others are supposed to get, they will. No one can stop that, but you can stop competing with others. Compete with yourself, that way every day you wake up you become a better version of yourself. You finally start being happy because you don't care what others are doing. Yes be happy for others but don't ever compete with them. Try to open your heart and feel happy for others. 

Try to build your positive energy.

Your success is written differently, your story is different, and your skills & talents are different, so just smile and enjoy the journey.

xxx