Friday, 13 May 2016

You don't need a man to make you happy!

Lets just face the fact that more girls have an illusion that they need a man to make them happy. I saw something the other day which I'm not going to go into detail about but it shocked me a little, hence why I'm writing this post. I've wrote a post similar to this before which is 'find yourself before your other half'. This post is dedicated to those (mainly young) girls who think they need someone to make them happy or to complete them.

I want to start first by asking you how much are you worth? Not literally but how much are you worth in your own eyes? How much respect do you give yourself? How much credit do you give yourself? How much do you love yourself? How much confidence do you have in yourself? If you don't love yourself or respect yourself enough then what makes you think that someone else will love you or respect you enough? You need to grow your confidence and find yourself. Find out what you love doing, what you like, dislike and what you really want in life (read my full 'find yourself before your other half' post). If you don't know yourself properly then how do you even know that a man is going to make you happy? You can make yourself happy by doing the things you love, by finding out what you love doing that makes you happy- let me tell you, you don't need a man to make you happy. 

Lets talk about experience of life (not relationships). If you're a teenager you really haven't seen the world then to be honest you still believe the world revolves around you. When you're a teenager then you haven't seen much of the world and your maturity level isn't that broad. Your life experiences will change the way you think and you begin to become more mature within time. It's not something you wake up with the next morning. Experiences make you who you are. If you haven't seen much of the world then I think you need to go experience the world. I'm not saying go do things but just observe things. Observation teaches you a lot and you will learn so much more from it.

This is a little reminder that you don't need someone to make you happy. You can be happy yourself. Just don't obsess over wanting someone else to make you happy. Go and find your own happiness by doing the things you love and enjoy.

I would love to know what makes you happy so leave me a comment below and I can't wait to read your answers 

Until next time, take care and keep smiling<3!


  1. I'm so glad to see a post from you!! and I love this one. I recently moved to a new city and I don't know many people so I'm finding it so important to find happiness by myself and doing things I enjoy.

    Lee -

    1. That sounds amazing Lee! I hope you're journey is unforgettable and you find the things you are looking for :)

  2. well said Ramsha. it's always important to love yourself and be happy with yourself before investing yourself in a relationship, because at the end of the day no matter what, you are you, you have got to be there for yourself.

    Rabiah A

    1. Thank you for your lovely comment Rabiah! I couldn't agree more with your comment <3


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