Thursday, 2 August 2018

she could be better than you

Don't be judgemental and get rid of the toxic vibes
Thanks to Mark Adriane for the beautiful representation.

Let's get one thing straight I'm not talking about the girls that compare themselves to other people. I'm talking about the girls that might do all the good things BUT they think they are superior to others. They judge other girls easily and look down upon them. Now I bet most girls do this without having a bad intention, but I want you to realise that if you do this, then it's WRONG

I'm going to try to explain it a little bit better. Imagine two girls, we'll call one 'A' and the other 'B'. 
Imagine if 'A' does all the good deeds and 'B' doesn't do as many good deeds. 
If 'A' looks down on 'B' and talks about her and says 'B' doesn't do as many good deeds as her, then who is in the wrong? 
'B' might have the kindest heart ever. Behind closed doors she might do all of her good deeds but doesn't boast about it. What if 'B' is the kindest girl ever but you just choose to judge her. 

What I’m trying to say is never think that you may be better than someone else because the truth is, you don’t know that. Always stay humble. We all have so many flaws and we make errors all the time. It’s a part of being a human. But, being a human doesn’t give anyone the right to act superior to others or to make others feel bad about themselves. 

Just have a little think for a moment. If you recently met a person or see them a around a few times and you don’t really talk to the person much. How can you judge a person? 
Learn to get to know others first, and if you get on with them, then great. 
If you don’t get along with them or your vibes don’t match, then silently leave them be. That doesn’t mean, going to others and talking nonsense or making up rumours. There’s no point in being toxic and life is too short. 
Instead, stay humble and positive. You met a person and simply didn’t get along with them. That doesn’t mean they will be like that with others. Just know there will be people who get along with them and love their company. Just because they aren’t your cup of tea doesn’t mean you have to take it personal. Life is too short to be judgemental. 

Don't judge a book by its cover. And, if you don't like the book, you don't have to read it.

Thanks for reading!
Until next time, take care and keep smiling.
Ramshaa Rose

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